• velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 hours ago

    Sex is one of those activities that should be done solely because all of the people involved want to have sex.

    Husbands shouldn’t be rewarded with sex. Sex isn’t something wives give out.

    I do hope you have been having fun as a newly married woman and I hope the sex has been good for you!

    • MrBackwardsCap@fedinsfw.app
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      2 hours ago

      100 percent

      Once sex becomes a ‘reward’ or a ‘prize’ for doing things, it becomes less about passion and fun, and a lot more transactional

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        33 minutes ago

        They aren’t mutually exclusive, though. It’s a problem if sex only happens as a reward or prize, for sure, but that’s not the only scenario out there.

      • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        2 hours ago

        Get paid to do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life ;)

        They’re not mutually exclusive lol