pixelmeow
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I’ve seen both pink or yellow. No clue what the difference is.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What do you get when you combine the last two books you read?English
2·3 个月前Tress of the Emerald Sea goes to RandLand to help the Dragon Reborn save the world?
“Never try to outstubborn a cat “
Robert A. Heinlein, The Notebooks of Lazarus Long
My partner and I got together in April of last year. I was 57 and he was 58. He is the love of my life. That person can come into your life at any time, don’t close the door on that opportunity for love. You ARE still young and have tons of life and love to share. It’s amazing the depth of emotion and connection you can share with the right person, I had no idea that older people had so much going on in their relationships.
People change, and when they change to the point that they are no longer the person you married, and you can’t work out how to stay that makes you both happy, it’s time to move on. No matter the age. There is no age limit on happiness and you only get this one life to experience it. I wish you the best.
East NC barbecue 😋
A good one of these makes moving much easier and less painful and aggravating than the cheap ones or the plastic things. Just don’t use it too long, take breaks if you’re making a lot of boxes at once. You can stress your hand and wrist using it.
There’s also a technique to it, which you can find examples of online. Try a few ways and see which works for you. Also practice helps. 😁
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TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•Aaaand creditsEnglish
4·9 个月前TIGHT tights!
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Science Memes@mander.xyz•Archaeology teaches us about our own society.English
2·9 个月前We were still in brown and yellow and there was no cotton. That uniform was hot and scratchy and reeked of fry oil no matter how often you washed it. The women’s uniform was similar to https://www.worthpoint.com/worthopedia/tb221c-1983-mcdonalds-uniforms-4138233506. They’re calling it burgundy but it was brown. Pure 70s brown. Yuk.
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Science Memes@mander.xyz•Archaeology teaches us about our own society.English
12·9 个月前I worked at McDonald’s in high school in 1983. Neither of those happened where I was, I made $3.35/hr and was given a uniform (polyester, bleh!) that I had to return in good condition when I left.
Of course my experience doesn’t mean it never happened, it just wasn’t overall what you described.
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TenForward: Where Every Vulcan Knows Your Name@lemmy.world•I don't understand some peopleEnglish
2·9 个月前Agree completely about Heinlein. The opinions people have about what he would have agreed or disagreed with are baffling to me. It’s like the only things they read are Moon is a Harsh Mistress, Starship Troopers, and Beyond This Horizon and they believe he was advocating a position instead of trying to get you to think and ask questions.
I’m so tired of the idea that “an armed society is a polite society” is any kind of good or that it is a society that should be longed for. Same for mandatory service.
How does an elephant hide in a cherry tree?
They paint their nails red
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Superbowl@lemmy.world•We Have Won the Lemmy.World LemmySilver Event!English
8·10 个月前I am a constant lurker here, I love what you share.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What cover song just takes you to Universe B compared to the original?English
3·10 个月前How about a whole album? Billie Joe Armstrong: No Fun Mondays He recorded these and released them on several Mondays back in early lockdown. I love the hell out of this album.
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News@lemmy.world•Americans, including Republicans, losing faith in Trump, new polls revealEnglish
11·10 个月前I see way too many people in my area cheering this shit on. I’m on the edge of red country tho but it’s still devastating.
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Comic Strips@lemmy.world•Credit to Miles Erickson - MyGumsAreBleedingEnglish
12·10 个月前Life before death
Heinlein wrote a lot of characters in his novels who were there to make you think, right or wrong or otherwise. I’m not so sure he himself was wrong, but he wasn’t trying to be right. He just wanted us to think.
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Lemmy.World Announcements@lemmy.world•[NO LONGER ACTIVE] Announcing an April charity event!English
2·11 个月前!whitelistsilver





For me it’s communication, honesty, openness, willingness to listen, and acceptance of where the person is coming from in their reactions and emotions. This is a result of childhood trauma and any long-term traumatic experience. CPTSD (complex PTSD), if you’d like to read about it. This kind of thing is learned below a conscious level so you can’t just logic yourself out of the reaction, it’s almost hard coded. Working together helps both of you figure out how to handle it, unfortunately there is no trick. It takes time and work and patience and love.