there’s definitely a non-zero number of people who self-diagnose as something to feel “special,” but for every one of them there are five people who are autistic or ADHD and need accomidations but won’t get them because the people around them think they’re doing them a favor by insisting they’re not “broken.” you don’t want your kid to be the first thing, sure, but also make sure you aren’t causing the second thing- if you’re in doubt, the right person to ask is a psychologist or a psychiatrist. however, that can be very expensive, hence the whole self diagnosis to begin with

they have three tabs open in chrome

Tech has hit a hard graphics plateau: raw generational updates are now nuanced upgrades measured in single-digit frame gains rather than evolutions anyone with eyes can appreciate

in my mind this happened a decade ago and people are only just now realizing that the emperor has no clothes

shout out to the galloping ghost in chicago. massive, massive arcade full of vintage cabs, some of them super rare. they charge a door fee so no cards or coins, but if you make a day out of it you’re plaging hundreds of dollars of games for like 20 bucks or something. they even have an R360 G-Loc cabinet, although you need to call ahead to make sure they have an extra hand on site to run it. i didn’t know you needed to call and when they told me i could come back tomorrow and i mentioned i drove in from out of town, they gave me a free admission card for next time, so very nice people working there too!

wild how far technology has marched on and yet we’re still essentially using the same basic idea behind technicolor. but hey, if it works!

ooh duly noted thank you

the only integration i want between my phone and my car is a 3.5mm audio jack. i’m driving a 2016 right now and am dreading replacing it because i doubt i’ll be able to find anything without this “infotainment” crap. i thought i had read that those were being phased out because consumers unilaterally hated them, so reading the opposite here is a huge bummer

you are a true fartist

there is truly no higher art than replacing “art” or “heart” with “fart”

this is especially appropriate considering Donkey Kong was almost a licensed Popeye game

god, the only thing worse than going to the ER with a glued butthole is getting there and seeing the “i feel a paper coming on” look in the doctor’s eyes

it’s a shame ReactOs is only in alpha and FreeDOS is single-tasking. it’s probably sacrelige to say this in a linux community but i wish we had foss os options that are to DOS and CP/M what modern linuxes are to Research Unix

it’s hard to compete with A Chtistmas Gift for You from Phil Spector, which has to me the definitive versions of a lot of the classics plus one of the all-time greatest tunes period in “Christmas (Baby Please Come Home).” if you like the kind of cheese that sprays out of a can, the Brian Setzer Orchestra does fun rockabilly takes on the classics, and Wizzard’s originals “I Wish It Could Be Christmas Everyday” and the other one who’s name i can’t remember are great. for the nerds in the room, Urizen’s “Autonomy” carries on the TSO spirit with a heavy heaping of chiptune, the soundtrack fo the Christmas NiGHTS into Dreams… demo has awesome renditions of the classics in 90s VGM fashion, and look up the demo song on the Yamaha SHS-10 keytar when you get a chance

why would you post something so ominous

east and eastn’t

Ann Leckie and Becky Chambers are definitely up there

and traveling by locomotive takes the most preperation because you have to train

a close cousin of the recorder is the tin whistle, and listening to a minute of mary bergin’s whistling will quickly shatter any illusion that fipple flutes are toys

i’m suprised no one seems to have point-blank asked him who his parents were in court, or if they did why that wasn’t the beginning and end of the case

i agree with you that insincere apologies are wrong. OP structured their post looking to understand their wife’s POV, rather than to get a bunch of strangers to agree with them like on an AITA post. if that were the case i definitely wouldn’t suggest apologizing. OP acknowledges that they hurt their wife, even if they didn’t mean to, much like their wife hurt them, even if they didn’t mean to. i just think sitting down and actually expressing that, saying “hey, i wouldn’t have said that or said it the way i said it if i knew it would upset you, i’m sorry” establishes empathy and good faith, and often times doing that is enough to get the other person to do the same thing. if OP didn’t seem sorry i wouldn’t have suggested apologizing

i think my wording was the problem here in hindsight. “i’d apologize for the way you reacted whether or not you actually blew your lid” does sound like i’m saying to apologize for being angry even if you weren’t angry. what i was trying to say was that apologizing for hurting them, even if their reaction seemed way out of proportion to what OP said or how OP said it, would be a good first step to reconciliation