

Volunteer for things you find interesting or fun.
Check out OpenStreetMap:
https://www.openstreetmap.org/
And help map out your area.
You can help out with a variety of different research projects over on the Zooniverse:
https://www.zooniverse.org/
Help out with research on wildlife in your area:
https://www.inaturalist.org/
Contribute to Wikipedia:
https://www.wikipedia.org/
If you feel passionate about consumer rights, you can contribute to the wiki here:
https://consumerrights.wiki/w/Main_Page
If you like to tinker with electronics, check out Fulu Bounties and get paid for helping to get around DRM on refrigerators or on an Xbox.
https://bounties.fulu.org/
Then of course there’s always volunteering for organizations nearby.
Why? I have reasons for each of these projects but for me it just sparks joy in contributing to projects that will help others.


If this is someone you’ll be seeing a lot, it’s best to try to make peace with them. Instead of “pouring fuel on the fire” it’s best to “pour water on it”.
Personally I’ve had conflicts in my life with others, but instead of reacting negatively, I made an effort to do the opposite. In one case that resulted in a friend instead of an enemy. In other cases it has diffused the situation.
It helps to try to put yourself in their shoes. Try to understand where they are coming from and what has driven them to react like this towards you.